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Better Communication With Alzheimer’s
When a family member or loved one has Alzheimer’s, the situation could be stressful for everyone. Alzheimer’s disease affects over 6 million Americans, with most over the age of 65. The progressive disease has no cure and can severely impact the quality of life. A common complaint is the inability to communicate with someone with the condition effectively. However, with a doctor’s help, better communication can make everyday living more manageable.
What is Alzheimer’s disease?
Alzheimer’s disease is often used interchangeably with dementia. However, dementia is a set of mild to severe symptoms related to brain function. These include:
- Poor memory
- Difficulty learning new information,
- Reduced problem solving
- Confusion
Dementia usually occurs when there is damage to the brain cells. Alzheimer’s disease is the loss of neurons and cells in the brain. Scientists believe that Alzheimer’s creates plaque, tangles, and inflammation in the brain. Over time, the neurons are unable to communicate, reducing brain function. The condition is the most common cause of dementia.
The fallout of Alzheimer’s
Alzheimer’s severely impacts lifespan as 1 in 3 seniors will likely die from the disease. As the condition progresses, so does the ability to communicate. At different stages of the disease, communication becomes more complex, so the strategy must change. At times, seniors will be unable to express thoughts, emotions, and even basic needs. The most important tip is to display patience, empathy, and understanding at all times.
Your words matter
Adopting a childlike approach in communication can help with understanding. Family members will need to use simple words and short sentences as best as possible. Clear, straightforward terms can help to process information and create better responses. Avoid phrasing questions in an accusatory manner or trying to force someone to remember a past event. Over time when the memory degrades further, use names at all times and avoid logic or complicated terms.
Your tone matters
Engaging a loved one with Alzheimer’s can be frustrating, which comes across in the tone of voice. Over time, this makes understanding each other difficult and fractures the relationship. The goal for family members is to express care so the loved one can feel safe. Speaking low, slow, and with a smiling, happy tone can help. Maintain eye contact and have relaxed, open body language as this affects communication.
Your patience matters
Communication with someone fighting the disease be stressful. However, Alzheimer’s patients need an abundance of patience. Let the loved one speak without interruption. Repeat any requests clearly to show understanding. From time to time, Alzheimer’s patients forget simple words, tasks or ask questions repeatedly. Try not to correct the behavior and support the request as best as possible. Finally, frustration can turn into aggressive behavior. Avoid countering the behavior with more aggressive words or tones.
Communicating clearly is possible
Interacting with somebody with Alzheimer’s can be difficult. Friends and family members often struggle to come to terms with the decreased memory and communication skills. However, these tips will make day-to-day interactions easier. Above all, be patient, kind, and use clear, simple language. If possible, get additional support from a doctor, specialist, or professional caregiver.
