5 Simple Ways to Say “I’m Still Here” to Your Loved One

Moving a loved one into a nursing home can be a difficult and emotional experience. The good news is, your role in their life isn’t over—you can still show love, stay connected, and provide support. Here are five ways to stay close to your loved one during this transition:

1. Visit Regularly—But Keep It Stress-Free

Visits mean a lot to someone in long-term care, but they don’t have to be long or complicated. Simply spending time together, even if it’s just sitting and chatting, helps maintain that connection.

Pro Tip: Instead of long visits, try shorter, more frequent ones. It reduces stress for both you and your loved one.

2. Send Personal Touches

Personalized gifts, whether it’s a handwritten note, a favorite blanket, or family photos, can make your loved one feel connected to home. These small gestures can bring comfort and familiarity, especially during tough days.

Pro Tip: Ask your loved one about their favorite colors or hobbies. A gift tailored to their tastes shows you’re still paying attention to their needs.

3. Join in on Activities Together

Many nursing homes, including Ashford Hall, offer daily activities that families can participate in. These may include games, holiday events, or even watching movies together. Attending these activities strengthens your bond and shows your loved one that they’re still an integral part of your life.

Pro Tip: Ask the nursing staff for a list of upcoming activities and plan to participate as much as you can.

4. Make Virtual Visits When You Can’t Be There in Person

Technology is a great way to bridge the gap when distance or time constraints prevent in-person visits. Set up regular video calls to chat with your loved one. Even a simple “hello” via a screen can brighten their day.

Pro Tip: Keep the conversation light and engaging—share updates about family, pets, and hobbies to keep them feeling connected.

5. Ask About Their Care and Well-being

Staying connected means being involved in your loved one’s care. Talk to the nursing staff and get regular updates on their health and activities. Ask about their preferences, meals, or if they need something more to make them feel at home. This involvement shows that you care about their well-being and want them to thrive in their new environment.

Pro Tip: Stay proactive in understanding their needs, and ask how you can best support them from afar.

By using these loving strategies, you’ll help your loved one feel supported and cherished even after they’ve transitioned into a nursing home. Remember, staying connected doesn’t always require grand gestures—it’s about the little moments and continuous effort to show that you’re still part of their life.

Need help navigating this transition?
At Ashford Hall, we’re here for you and your loved one every step of the way. Reach out today to learn more about how we support families like yours.